Only in old age do you realize that fraternization between brothers and sisters is conditional
Click on the top of the blue word attention, qingfeng every day with you to analyze emotional knowledge.When WE were young, brothers and sisters were the closest people to us and the most important people to us. But slowly as we grow up, we find that this is not the case. Brothers and sisters seem not so important to us.And at this time we and the other side of the time ah, also do not want to childhood, rely on affection is enough, but need conditions.Once these conditions are not met, the relationship between brothers and sisters will not be good, and the relationship between brothers and sisters will be prone to problems.When we are young, we don’t always understand, but as we grow up, we understand that the relationship between brothers and sisters is conditional.Brothers and sisters, need clear reckoning between brothers and sisters, when they are young, they are a family, but when they grow up, they have their own families, they are not a family.Everyone has their own family, everyone is also thinking about their own family, are thinking about their own family.At this point, it is not a family, and once interests are involved, it is easy to break the relationship.There is a saying: brothers, no reckoning.In fact, this is the truth, even brothers and sisters, also need to clear accounts, everyone is thinking about their own family, are thinking about their own life.At this point, for us, it is better to calculate clearly, once someone wants to take advantage of, then such a life must not be good.So, later in life, I realized that brothers and sisters need to be clear accounts.Brothers and sisters, need not compare with people and people, the most afraid of comparison, especially between brothers and sisters.At the beginning, they are the same and equal, but slowly after a long time, they will find that their development is different, and then there will be competition.They compete with each other over who has the best job, who makes the most money, whose children have the best education, whose children have the best school, who gets the best house, etc.Once comparisons start, the relationship changes.In fact, between brothers and sisters, want to have a good long-term relationship, it is difficult not to compare.Because once you compare, that weak person is able to feel, that strong person, will have a sense of superiority, even look down on each other, such a relationship is not equal.Once the relationship is like this, it will not go on, want to go on, do not compare.3, brothers and sisters, need to have a sense of proportion when we communicate with strangers, generally have a sense of proportion, but with their own relatives, it is easy to have no sense of proportion.Say things the other person doesn’t like to hear. Say things the other person can’t accept.At this point, we find that once there is no sense of proportion, the relationship between siblings deteriorates, and once it deteriorates, the relationship cannot work.So no matter when siblings interact, they need to have a sense of proportion.Do not meddle easily in the affairs of the other party’s family. Do not make up your mind easily in the affairs of the other party.The important thing is, the other party’s things, do not easily say to others, more do not in someone’s time, slander each other, or laugh at each other, say something that the other party cannot accept.When we don’t, we find that the relationship between sisters is long and friendly.But if we don’t have a sense of proportion, and when we do and say things, we don’t have a sense of proportion, then the relationship won’t work and there will be big problems in the relationship.4, brothers and sisters, need to pay attention to each other’s affection between brothers and sisters, not to say that there is a blood relationship, the most important thing is also need to pay attention to affection between each other.When you attach importance to the family, care about each other between each other, then you can more contact, more care about each other’s feelings, more attention to each other’s feelings, slowly the relationship will be better.But if you do not pay attention to the family, do not care about the feelings of the other party, such a relationship is bound to be not good, also can not last, only by blood relationship can not continue.Therefore, the communication between brothers and sisters, you should know, is to attach importance to the family.Only pay attention to the family, will care about each other’s feelings, will pay attention to each other’s feelings, will care for each other and take care of each other, such a relationship can be long.Brothers and sisters are born with blood ties. They have feelings for each other since childhood. When they grow up, if they want to have a better relationship, they need to maintain it constantly.So, when you do have siblings, keep them.Pay more attention to each other’s feelings, let each other feel your warmth, let each other feel your care, so that your relationship can last a lifetime.-END- Author introduction: sunny wind, rational to see the world, warm to see love, LET my words can move you, bring you warmth.